Harvey Says Goodbye to Grandma

Note to Parents: This story introduces the concept of death in a calm, comforting way. It’s written to help children understand loss as a natural part of life, emphasizing love, memory, and ongoing connection. Read slowly, allowing time for questions. It’s okay if emotions arise — this story can open space for healing conversations.

Story

Harvey loved his grandma. She always smelled like cookies and gave the best ear scratches. She called him her “sweet boy” and told stories about when she was little. One day, Harvey’s mom sat down beside him and spoke very softly. “Harvey,” she said, “Grandma got very sick, and her body stopped working. She died this morning.” Harvey’s ears drooped. “Does that mean… she’s gone forever?” Mom nodded gently. “Her body isn’t here anymore, but the love we shared and the memories we made stay with us forever. Grandma’s love doesn’t end, even though we can’t see her.” Harvey thought for a long time. “Where did she go?” Mom smiled through her tears. “Different people believe different things. I like to think Grandma’s love is all around us — in the sunshine, in the garden she planted, and in the stories we tell.” Harvey’s tail twitched. “Will I ever see her again?” “Not the way we used to,” Mom said. “But sometimes, when you think about her, or dream about her, it can feel like she’s right beside you.” That night, Harvey looked up at the stars. One twinkled extra bright. “Goodnight, Grandma,” he whispered. “I love you.” And somehow, he felt warm inside — like Grandma was smiling back.

Talk About It

Ask your child: “Have you ever missed someone special?” “What helps you feel close to them?” Let your child know it’s okay to be sad or confused. Encourage sharing happy memories, drawing pictures, or saying goodnight to a loved one who has died. You might consider looking at photos and videos of these special people. Remind your child that love continues even when someone is no longer here.